I play many roles in my life; I am a daughter, a sister, a niece, an aunty, a wife and a mother. Even the term “woman” delegates me into a role to a certain extent. In these roles I know what is expected of me and what I can expect in return, and most of these roles don’t cause me much concern. In terms of understanding the expectations involved, the hardest role I play in my life is that of a “friend.”